Originally Posted by Rockon
So yeah, talks and engagement. I don’t know if I am happy I agreed to go out with her or not but it happened. It certainly was uncomfortable.
Well I will give you a B on your communication. Better than most do here. You still have room to improve. Keep up on your growth in this area.

I am not sure how many times you have declined her invites to do activities together, but from my limited information, I see this would have been a good time to reject her. You should be almost always unavailable to her. The more unavailable you are, the more she will pursue you. If I were to put a number on it, decline 9/10 invites. As for the 1/10 that you do accept, make is short. This type of behavior is DBing 101 and attraction 101.


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