She just came to me and said this: "Today is our anniversary, and I know this is not the way we were planning on spending it, but I just want you to know that I do care."
Being detached enough to understand how to respond to these type of statements from women is important. Getting a high sexual market value attitude is part of that. Saying the unexpected. Behaving unexpected. A little shocking for her to hear. Has to be done in a very confident way, without any expectations from you.
H"Really? How about you show me how much you care." )
That's interesting. Perhaps I pull something like that out the next time I get that line from her. She seems to be following a stereotyped sort of script. On Father's Day, I got the same thing, but in written form: "I know you weren't planning on spending (insert name of special occasion here) like this, but I just want you to know I do care."
I am absolutely capable of saying something like what is under the spoiler without any hint of insecurity. Knowing her, it's very likely her response would be, "What do you mean?"
The statement under the spoiler could be interpreted a couple of ways. She could also interpret it as confrontational (as if I'm saying, "If you really cared, you wouldn't be seeking to end our marriage/break up our family.")
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023
