Yesterday was my older son's HS graduation in the morning, followed by a pizza party for BIL's son finishing elementary school.
Today is the graduation party for my older son. It's also our anniversary, which is now just another day. Last night W told me her parents gave us an anniversary gift (check). I was surprised, given the circumstances. She asked if we want to split it, which is our usual custom. I half-heartedly said, "I guess." It was very thoughtful of her parents, but honestly, I don't really care what she does with the money at this point. Money doesn't compensate for a family lost.
My younger sister will be at the graduation party. She is visiting from out of state and I rarely see her. W asked if I wanted to inform her of our situation at the party. I told her no, and I hope she doesn't go behind my back on this. I remained calm when she suggested this, but inside I wanted to scream. This is a happy event, with my sister whom I rarely see, and we're supposed to take her aside and say, "By the way, we're getting divorced?"
This is something I will handle with my family, when I feel it is appropriate. Today is not that day.
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023
