we could have literally no financial worries, she wants out.
This is the crazy part. My X and I most likely would be retired now. I was to the point where I was going to focus on managing the money that we paid to the lawyers.
Originally Posted by Terapin
However, this brings into question the issue of child and spousal support again. I meet with a different lawyer next Tuesday, who comes highly recommended.
Time with the kids is more important than the money (IMHO). If I was in your shoes, I would negotiate more time with the kids and she can have a "better" slice of the child support. THIS WILL GO AGAINST EVERYTHING the system is setup for. People will think you are crazy, but time with the kids is priceless...(The next 7 years will fly by)....you can always make more money. Make sure you review the clauses about any significant change in either of your incomes.
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