D and Kind, thanks. I absolutely wouldn't sign anything without a lawyer's approval. I know we both agreed to keep L's out of this as much as possible to keep costs down, but that's probably not entirely possible.

But I just don't want to have a L say 'ya this is good, the assets/debts are fair, everything is equal. Cut me my check'.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14