D and Kind, thanks. I absolutely wouldn't sign anything without a lawyer's approval. I know we both agreed to keep L's out of this as much as possible to keep costs down, but that's probably not entirely possible.
But I just don't want to have a L say 'ya this is good, the assets/debts are fair, everything is equal. Cut me my check'.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14