I snapped and said 'you honestly think I still want to be with you, after all the [censored] you've put me through the past 20 years? Get the F over yourself'.
I am glad you took your balls out of her purse.
Originally Posted by Terapin
She just wants out, and doesn't seem to want to screw me over.
Her words might not say this, but her actions do. You are getting screwed over on your parenting time. Call her on her BS. Can you help with homework?Take her plan, cross out mother and write father. Do the same with mother, write father. Send it back and says this looks much more fair to me. See if that stirs some anger in her. Do not argue with her. Remain calm. Control yourself. Differentiate yourself as a man who can do that. If she goes crazy, record it.
As always get legal advise.
Be prepared for "restraining orders." That is in their play book. Pray for the best, plan for the worse.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
