My Story

[Sunflyer]

But I wouldn’t advocate “stalling” the divorce. Just don’t accelerate it. She wants the divorce, she can do the work. If you deliberately stall it, all she sees is a man who is prolonging her pain. She’ll continue to build resentment against you, and reconciliation will be less likely.

That's exactly my concern.

So I guess if she wants to discuss terms, I tell her that I am open to discussing terms, while leaving the work up to her.