So I got a glimpse at the custody agreement W will be giving me. It's basically a 2-2-3. But during the school year, she will have him for 8 overnights, while I'd get 6 (in a 2 week period). In the summer, I'd have him 8 and her 6.
I know she said before she'd like an extra night in the school year so she can help with homework, etc.
This would still be considered 50/50 shared, but would the extra 4 nights a month for 9 months cause me to pay child support? Does this arrangement seem fair? Obviously I want my son as much as possible so her extra day/week [censored]. But in reality she is better with homework, projects, etc so it may be to his benefit?
If she splits the cookie, you get to pick. That is fair.
Parent A gets these dates Parent B gets these dates.
365 days/2 = 182
"It's yours to loose" is what my lawyer said to me. Take those words and use them however you want.
There are only so many days (mostly evenings)we get with our kids. I suggest not settling for anything less than 182. my 2 cents.
Look into first right of refusal as well.
My X and I had completely different parenting styles, which is OK. I expected my kids to do their homework. My X expected me to do the kids homework.
On a different note: Read parenting with love and logic if you get a chance.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
