Quick follow up: I was just about to call my sister to talk about this. (I have said nothing about it to her). W said she wanted to go out for a while.
Opened up my phone and according to the tracking app, W has beat me to the punch, as she's already over there.
Me 59 W 47 T 26 M 23 S18, S14 BD May 2023 D filed June 2023 OM1 confirmed: December 2023 OM2 confirmed: October 2023