DNJ gave you good advise.

I have my personal view that 50/50 split on joint expenses is fair. The legal systems appears to me to split based on income ratio. At the time of my divorce, My income was 2 times my x's. So I paid 2/3 she paid 1/3. The kicker was she took a pay cut right at the same time I got a good raise...then she filed. Was much closer to 50/50 during the marriage.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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