Living in the past brings depression. Living in the future brings anxiety.
Living in the present brings peace and calm. Ground yourself in the present moment. Be in the present moment.
Dig for patience and let the future unfold on its time.
You are correct, H is dealing with many variables. Mute your expectations and let him deal with them. He is still walking his path on his timeline.
H needs to rebuild that which he destroyed. It’s part of his healing. This is not some mean holding back on your part, rather an allowing (and encouraging) him to catch up to you. After all, you’ve grown and healed significantly in this time. Be a beacon. Let him decide and choose to catch up.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
