I was in the bedroom, and she changed out of her clothes right next to me. I was surprised by that since she has seemed more "demure" since the fallout. Part of me enjoyed that it happened, and part of me felt incredibly frustrated since my mind went straight to things that are now off limits.
The first question I was going to ask is : Is your bedroom "more manly" than when you first started posting? Obviously, that is not how you are framing the discussion, so I am bringing you into my frame. Have you watched the youtube clips of Tommy Shelby how he maintains his frame? Maybe the sigma male clips?
Somehow each of us needs to learn new behaviors that increase our attractiveness. It is extremely tricky with someone soo familiar with us.
For me, my bedroom is for sex, sleeping is secondary. At least that is the thought process. If a woman is getting undressed in my bedroom, then it is in preparation for sex.
So in your case, you send her an email: "I believe it would be best if you sleep in the guest bedroom from now on."....if questioned: Not sure how playfully you can say: "After teasing me last night" or "after the stunt you pulled" or whatever communicates that her behavior is unacceptable. There is an art to doing this. She might respond positively. Or negatively....Either way, you are having fun.
Just brainstorming here. Just don't be boring.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
