Anyway, thanks guys for the advice. It's not like I'm in a hurry to get divorced, and despite being impatient, I know it could take a few weeks to get served. But sitting here in this limbo [censored]. I'm not talking from an emotional standpoint or anything. What I mean is, once I get the papers, I can go over them with my attorney, contact realtors to put our house up for sale, really put my future plans into action. It's tough to do when I don't even know for sure what her L will draw up for custody agreement, division of debt/assets, etc.
She's texted me three times today and called once. All pertaining to our son, but stuff like 'he had fun at his practice this morning!', 'can you make sure he doesn't live his water bottle at the playground?', etc. I know I shouldn't even reply, but since it's about our kid, I just reply with one word answers; 'good', 'ok', etc.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
