So I guess my only question now is, since I haven't been served yet (she claims L was filing over 2 weeks ago), should I ask her wtf the hold up is??
If you are in a rush, file yourself.
If you are not in a rush, then who cares? This is part of detachment. You are not in control of her and what she is doing, so focus on what you control.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
