…I just kept saying to myself 'why would I even want to be with her?' I'm sure I'll have good and bad days, but is this what detachment is? Just a total indifference towards her and what happens?
So I guess my only question now is, since I haven't been served yet (she claims L was filing over 2 weeks ago), should I ask her wtf the hold up is??
No, I’d not ask her.
Detachment, indifference, and such are emotional states. Decisions made and actions taken based upon emotions usually lead to regret.
Stick to the path. You thought about things. Decided things. Before this moment. Before your temporary reprieve from your feelings. Follow that. Follow your reason.
With the emptiness and silence of W and her behaviour, look inside yourself. Find you. Your values. Your motivations. Know thy self.
This void is temporary, and I suspect will unwind and reassert itself a few times. Do not fritter away your opportunity in all this. It’s still a gruelling road to truly find peace and acceptance.
Originally Posted by Terapin
I'm really having no thoughts or feelings about her whatsoever.
Nature abhors a vacuum and other feelings will loom larger in the void. Stay the course. Continue moving forward.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
