Welcome! I am pasting in Cadet's Welcome Thread for you to read. Please continue to post and ask questions. I'm sure others will come along shortly to post to you.

https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2854488#Post2854488


Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.