Kind is correct. Perfectly normal to have such thoughts and feelings. Purposefully allowing a short scheduled time for such wanderings is beneficial. It regains and exerts your control and influence upon the situation.
Originally Posted by URS0
I’m working on maintaining the resolve to stay true to myself and not reach out to her. I ask for you all to bear witness to this resolve. I know it is the right thing to do. It is not easy.
Good for you. Maintain your resolve.
I want to hear how you successfully didn’t reach out or initiate any interactions for the few short days she was there.
Stay strong. Stay busy. You got this.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
