I figured the first holiday weekend since BD would be rough, and it kinda was. Mutual friends and family had parties saturday and sunday. W and I went our separate ways, but spent yesterday with son at a friends cookout. It was a bit awkward. I really think W believes we can continue to hang out at parties and stuff after D. That isn't going to happen. But she kept saying yesterday how none of her friends are 'taking sides', talking bad about me, etc.

I still haven't been served yet. She gave her L paperwork last Monday. Not sure how long it takes


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14