Just a brief comment. The next family event is on Sunday for Memorial Day. W's brother is hosting once again.
This is one of the first questions my DB coach asked me:
Is it better for you to go and she resents you being there? OR Is it better for you not to go and have her miss you?
Is there something that you could do that you would enjoy more? (Yes, this is part of your new decision making process.) Or be better for your personal growth. (Read the art of seduction).
You might want to get your own list of decision making questions clarified to help in your DBing efforts.
What works is counter-intuitive. (Burn this statement into your brain).
Most likely you will want to justify going:
Originally Posted by Sunflyer
She's good with my being there. (I didn't ask her how she felt about my attending, so no prompting from me).
Whatever choice you make, your W will use it against you.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
