Originally Posted by TellMeSo
Originally Posted by Boat14
Assume she’s cheating if it makes it easier to detach.

She’s going to remain cold until you back off. She doesn’t want to give you false hope.

In time she will remember more good than bad.


I trust your words. Back to full no contact.

If you followed my thread, my 'as if' attitude actually made W happy because she thought I was completely on board with the D. Now, I assume she is cheating, and I talk to her as I would the clerk at the local convience store.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14