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My mindset was I am not agreeing to anything until I have a 50/50 parenting plan in writing.

Set precedence now. Right now you have 100% parenting time. That is going to change. Out of your control. What is in your control is how you address it. Start the email dialogs like I said in the last post.

One of my boundaries was primary communication via email. Secondary was text.

my process:

1) Draft up email.
2) Wait, and reread, edit. send.
3) Send W text "I sent you an email"

Worked well.



Might want to check out Chat GPT. It is a good resource for starting some research. Just vet out the answers.

Describe setting precedence with regards to a parenting plan.
ChatGPT

Setting precedence in a parenting plan refers to establishing a consistent routine, structure, and decision-making process that serves as a baseline for future parenting arrangements. It involves creating a framework that provides stability, clarity, and predictability for both parents and children. Here are some key aspects of setting precedence in a parenting plan:

Custody and visitation schedule:
Determine a regular and predictable schedule for the children's time with each parent.
Consider factors such as the children's ages, school schedule, extracurricular activities, and parents' work schedules when creating the schedule.
Ensure that the schedule allows for regular and meaningful contact with both parents.

Decision-making authority:
Define how major decisions regarding the children's upbringing will be made (e.g., education, healthcare, religious upbringing).
Establish whether decisions will be made jointly by both parents or if one parent will have final decision-making authority.
Clearly outline the process for resolving disputes or disagreements regarding decision-making.

Parental communication:
Encourage open and respectful communication between parents regarding the children's well-being.
Specify how communication will occur (e.g., in-person, phone calls, email, text messages) and how often.
Promote cooperation and the sharing of important information about the children's activities, progress, and any significant changes.

Consistency in rules and discipline:
Strive for consistency in parenting styles, rules, and discipline between both households.
Discuss and establish common guidelines for issues such as bedtime routines, homework, screen time, and consequences for misbehavior.
This helps provide stability and a sense of continuity for the children, regardless of which parent they are with.

Flexibility and adaptability:
Recognize that circumstances may change over time, requiring adjustments to the parenting plan.
Establish a process for reviewing and modifying the plan when necessary, while prioritizing the best interests of the children.
Both parents should be willing to work together and be flexible in accommodating changes that benefit the children.

Documentation and record-keeping:
Maintain accurate records of parenting time, important events, and significant decisions.
Document any deviations from the established parenting plan and the reasons behind them.
This can be helpful in addressing future disputes or modifications to the plan.

Remember, setting precedence in a parenting plan should prioritize the best interests of the children and facilitate a healthy co-parenting relationship. It is generally recommended to consult with legal professionals and mediators who specialize in family law to ensure that the parenting plan is fair, legally sound, and suitable for the unique circumstances of the family.