It looks like you are exiting the denial stage and are moving into the anger stage. This is part of the process you have to go through. Unfortunately there are no short cuts. I know you don’t believe this now but in time you will adjust to seeing your son less. You will see him less but the time you spend with him will be more meaningful and fulfilling. It’s hard to see now but in time you will understand.
It doesn’t make sense to the LBS how they are willing to give up half their time with their children. We have seen some here willing to give them a way. That’s how unhappy they are right now. Only time will tell if you were the sole reason for her unhappiness.
I think the anger has been there. lol. She withdrew $500 from our savings account this morning to help pay for her lawyer. I just transferred the same amount to my checking account, as well as adjusting my direct deposit to only send some of my paycheck to our joint account. I also ordered checks, removed her from my life insurance, and set up a consultation with another lawyer for next week. Oddly enough, all of this stuff felt pretty good to do.
She has told several people that I've been in 'denial' about this whole sitch, and I'm not 'accepting' what is happening. lol. Self centered to the extreme.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
