Divorce can be a brutally hard, life-changing event.
But there’s every possibility you will look back on this time as your finest hour.
One day when you’re looking back, you’ll be immensely proud that you tried to save it, that you worked hard on your flaws, that you got out of your comfort zone to sing “The Wheels On The Bus” … and perhaps, whether your marriage is saved or not, it was the best thing that could have happened to you.
I came here four years ago, completely broken. I now look back on the last four years as the hardest, but also the best and most rewarding time of my life.
Have you seen the Shawshank Redemption?
“Get busy living, or get busy dying. That’s God damn right!”
It’s a great, uplifting movie about grit and determination and prevailing.
“The Blind Side” is also a great movie extolling the virtues of being a good human being and parent even when it’s tough.