Hey D. Thanks. Yeah, it's all really overwhelming. and this doesn't even take into consideration splitting the household assets and stuff.
Since, unlike my W, I haven't secretly been stashing money, I'm going to have to get some stuff together quickly. I also saw on her texts that the attorney she had a consult with isn't the one that's representing her. It's the attorney she worked for for years. And lol at him still charging her the full retainer feel. She probably thought he'd do it for free.
I have a call in to meet with another recommended attorney. Hopefully he does a free consult. And I guess when I get served, then I just pay the retainer of whichever L I choose and take the info to him/her?
Anyway, D, Steve, etc, thanks for all the info and advice. I feel like I'm hijacking the board or something, cause this is a 'divorce busting' site and not divorce advice site. So D (or whichever mod), I can stop posting here if this is inappropriate for the forum
Last edited by DnJ; 05/20/2310:57 PM. Reason: Corrected typo.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14