Just got back from sons football game. W was there, but then went to a friends to hang out and likely get hammered.

Found out she's been secretly saving up money, and is borrowing more from her parents to pay a retainer fee next week.

Steve, I think the decision is being made for me, and that's fine.

My question is, so when she files and I get served, will that include any kind of written proposals for what she's going to expect/ask for (custody, assets, etc)? Or does that stuff come later?


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14