When you got 50/50, was/is it exactly 50/50? I've read stories that guys have got that decision, but it was still more like 80/20.
Close to 182/183. I believe that frequent and equal time with both parents is best for the child unless one of the parents is toxic.
"It's yours to loose" are wise words from my lawyer.
Right now you have 100% parenting time if you choose. Let W do whatever she wants. You spend all your time parenting your child.
I see three things can change that:
1) You make agreements with W about parenting time. 2) A judge makes a decision about your parenting time. 3) A restraining order.
At the end of the day, your time with your son during the next few years is what is important.
There is infinite money out there, but only a limited amount of time left to be an active part of your sons life.
I'd never try to keep our son away from his mother, unless she completely goes off the deep end. I would absolutely like full custody, but I know that's not in his best interest. i'd think my W, who's a professional therapist/child counselor, would feel the same.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
