Those of us that have been here awhile have our own list. Writing it out helps clarify things.
A good exercise for you to consider: I challenge you to get a list of 25. List them in order of importance/effectiveness FOR YOU. Elaborate and clarify every little detail.
I am further down the path than you, and my list is constantly in flux and changing for the stage of life I am at. Here is one of mine:
#x) Do not be boring - Woman need excitement in their lives. I should be a major source of excitement in my ladies life. If she looks bored, how can I add excitement to her life. Concerts, Dancing, Motorcycle rides, do things that we have not done together. Learn and try new things in the bedroom. Remember that even an arguments is better than being boring.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
