WAS's KNOW that what they are doing is not exactly holding up their end of the marriage vows. This is especially the case if there are children involved. In my situation, to justify his actions, I fully believe my H had to cultivate an enormous level of contempt for me. That was really, really hard to come to terms with. That he pretty much had to hate me in order to be able to look at himself in the mirror and be okay with how he was treating me.
My WAW had so much hate towards me. She has now come around and says she doesn’t have hate towards me anymore. I told her that I was happy to here that. Not because it made me feel better but because she was becoming a healthy.
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M:51 W:43 T:17 M:15 S:13 D11 10/2022 BD/IHS 03/2023 W moves out
