Steve, like I said, a part of me will never forgive her for this (actually twice in 5 years). When I look at this without any emotion, what I see is a selfish woman who rarely wants sex, doesn't cook, drinks every night, has a ton of debt, and has put me through the ringer for 20 straight years. Emotionally I want to save the M for the sake of the family, and I do love her. But rationally, Art Carney can have her too.
Kind, there is no money for anything like that right now. lol. But believe me, when this is settled and I'm back on my feet, there are things I've wanted for years that I could never get since it was more important for W to buy her 52nd pair of shoes.
R2C, that's one thing I havent' researched; a DIY D. One of the weirdest things about all of this is, she worked for a L for like 10 years as a legal secretary. The L is still practicing, and would probably cut her a big break. Yet she's using someone else.
R2C, she thought I did have an epiphany! The same epiphany that she had. She will probably back off of the 'niceness' now, and guarantee she'll expect me to. But I'm going to keep the same demeanor, and just go about my business like I've been.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
