I can't stand the thought of turning our sons life upside down
That is why you DB. Can't control her, but you can focus on being the best dad on the planet. You will most likely have more quality time with him.
Originally Posted by Terapin
So, here's a woman in her mid 40s, that is giving up half of her son, her husband, a quarter million dollar home, safety, security, friends, etc, because she's 'not happy'. I've stuck w/ her through a ton of issues (eating disorder, depression, alcoholism, etc).
She will find out that she is still 'not happy' when she is away from you. You are the one that will go through life changing personal growth.
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