So after thinking a little, I’m gonna say this and head on out. If this is real, you do know what to do, you just refuse to do it. I believe you are using your kids as an excuse to keep maximum contact. You’re updates are always focused around your STBXW and adult children. I still sometimes have to go back and check because your situation would make most think your kids are very little.
You’ve given advice to others on here and have tried to be supportive. Thats why I believe you know what to do, and it why I’m hopeful this is real and you are just paralyzed by fear.
You’ve done nothing but stand still and hoped she’d come to her “senses”, but it won’t happen with the action you take and you know that.
It’s time for you to read your threads over again because there’s a wealth of information in there and it shows you don’t take to heart what we post to you.
I’ll leave you with this, your wife fired you. Would you continue to do this to your boss if they fired you?
Me: 40 EX:37 Together 17 years Married 16 years 5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11
