Thank you. I look at detachment slightly differently - she no longer occupies my head and does not live there rent free. Yes, occasionally she pops up in the head, but so does my previous exes.
At first, I came here for emotional support. Now, I come here to tell about my journey and seek advice on how to better myself. Once she said no on the walk, I did not feel disappointed where as before I would be sad about it. For me, this is detachment. Her decisions not affecting my emotional well-being.
Maybe I am wrong.
I guess she will see my appearance changes through my social media as she continues to watch every single piece of content I put on the web.
I am in a strange place right now. Even if I want to be emphatic and justify her actions, I believe that it would be too toxic to continue this marriage. On another side, it's strange to realize that this marriage coming to an end so soon.
What made you realize that you have fully detached/moved on?
