We 'seem' perfectly happy (talking, goofing around, being nice, etc). Yet I know she's still moving forward with D planning. I just don't get it.
You have been friend zoned.
Originally Posted by Terapin
I think so, but most of that stuff is designed to attract women, starting from a clean slate.
It has been awhile, but I took it as getting out of your comfort norm and making that your new normal state of being.
Friend zoned? IDK, maybe. It's funny though cause during BD, she actually said something along the lines of 'we have nothing in common. If we weren't married would we even be friends or talk to each other?' I do however think I"m being too friendly/available to her.
You're right. Most of that stuff boiled down to just being confident.
I got W a card, small cake, and a flower for Mother's Day. She said 'thanks'. I took our son to my parents for a few hours yesterday, and W went to hers. She texted and told me son and I could come over there if we want (we didn't). On her way home she texted saying she's ordering chinese take out, and asked if i wanted anything (I didn't). I'm sure at some point this week she'll want to have another 'talk'.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
