How long can you actually go without a post about her ??
Well let’s see then. This weekend: lots of gardening, steaks on the grill, boating and drinks with friends and helping my parents with some tasks.
For those playing along at home on the DB board game....
You made it 6....
SIX !!!
And that's counting the one where you linked your old thread...
And probably would have only been three, because the one about your MIL, I would be willing to bet that you erased something about her, and had to proofread to make sure that you didn't..
WTF Rock ???
Gardening, Steaks, Boating, Drinks....
All great, other than they have turned into just a distraction for you. They distract you just enough to keep her out of your thoughts for the next hour, until you have to find another distraction to keep her out of your next thought about her.....
There is a deeper part to you Rock, that you seem to be afraid to find, and I would assume that you aren't that superficial, yet your posts come through that way...
Your posts of late don't show signs of moving forward, they show signs of you merely distracting yourself and waiting for her to change her mind....
When I say these things to you, what thoughts do you have about them....
Conflict Avoidance ??
Codependency ??
Abandonment ??
No fluff, no BS....
Your thoughts....
You've encapsulated GAL very nicely....
Yet you are ignoring the other aspects of DBing.
I've seen posters come here, GAL like mad, and it turns into merely an avoidance of self growth and keeps them stuck in the same old behaviors that led them here in the first place.
Maybe take some time, and really think about WHO you want to be at the end of all of this...
