Here’s my honest feed back.

You are incapable of dropping the rope. You don’t seem to have taken the time to learn what DB actually is. You can read the book but you either don’t understand or will not…take it in.

Your MIL was just being polite. Period point blank. If she wanted you to help she’d ask you herself without you offering. If she had questions about her grand child’s needs she’d ask her daughter. I’m also not quite sure why she’d need support from you and for what.

It’s perfectly normal for couples who’ve split to not go to their in laws….like ever.

No Rock, you’re going to offer to go every single chance you get until you learn their schedules and run into your wife as often as possible because you won’t help yourself. I truly believe that’s what you’d do right now.

Obviously I’m on team do not reach out.

I’m glad you had a nice day with the kids.


Me: 40
EX:37
Together 17 years
Married 16 years
5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11

BD 03/06/20, divorced 12/23/21