Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by Terapin
I used to be pretty good at being 'that guy'. And I still seem to be to most people, except my W. lol. I used to practice all of the 'experts' advice (being alpha, no more nice guy, cocky-funny, etc). Any reading you'd recommend?

Check out the ones listed as MEN and also attraction:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2061094#Post2061094

Thanks. Yep, I have 'The Game' by Neil Straus. When W and I first started dating, we were on and off again for a few years. I finally said 'the hell with it' when we were broken up, and really got into that stufrf (Mystery, David Deangelo, etc). I was amazed how well it worked, and eventually W and I got back together.


Married: 15yrs
Ages: Me 49, W 44
Kids: S12
BD: around 4/14