Again, not that I was a pushover wimp, but at it's core I was a 'nice guy'. Most things have usually been on her terms. We wouldn't have sex, and she'd say it was because of x. I'd do more of x, sex wouldn't improve, and she'd say it's now because of y. I'd do y, etc, etc, etc. .
Yup...been there done that.
With my lady, the dynamics are a 180 from the way I was with my X. Learning skills to turn my lady on, controlling my behavior to be more attractive and seductive makes the interactions so much better.
I used to be pretty good at being 'that guy'. And I still seem to be to most people, except my W. lol. I used to practice all of the 'experts' advice (being alpha, no more nice guy, cocky-funny, etc). Any reading you'd recommend?
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
