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She also laughed when I told her about W telling her lawyer about speeding the process along due to a 'lack of physical intimacy'.

I always try to find some humor and "test" her statement. Maybe insinuate a couple "encounters" a day to slow down the process.

So, the plan is not to mention any of this. But W will ask soon if I've reviewed all that stuff she gave me. Eventually I'm going to have to say 'yes' right?

When she asks, then you say "Yes". Do not reveal your cards. possibly statement: "I am working on my response. I will get it to you when it is complete" if she keeps asking when.

And if/when I tell her the bad news (she'll take her debt, she won't get support, etc), she's either going to go ballistic, or get knocked back into reality. I'm just not sure how much or what I should say, especially with us being amicable for now?

This is all negotiation. I have not read "Never split the difference", but you might want to read it in the very near future.