My guess is your stbxw has done her due diligence and is aware of what is at stake here. Probably why she mentioned getting a second job.
She makes more money than you. Google hypergamy if you want to know why she wants a divorce.
lol. Maybe you're right. But it's not like she's the breadwinner or anything. She just got a raise a few months ago and now makes a little more than me.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14