W told me she wants to meet up to talk before she leaves town again tomorrow. I asked her what she wants to discuss and she just said she wants to talk about herself and have me kindly listen. I’ve been re-reading the validation threads and mentally preparing myself to not be drawn into an R talk.
Hi. I'm no expert, but yes, if you do meet her, just listen and validate as much as possible. If she starts escalating towards a fight, just say you have things to do and leave
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
