Spiral, if you're not in IC, is highly suggest it. I'm thinking you need to work on your self-esteem. Staying married in case things went south with OM? I mean that's the epitome of being plan B.
It's your life, c you can do what your want, but I'm rooting for Spiral to be better tomorrow then he is today. I'm saddened to not see you moving towards that.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018