Yeah it was weird Thursday night when she brought up the lack of physical intimacy. That's been my primary issue with our M for a decade; she rarely wants to have sex. I"m sure she'd say (and has said in the past) that since there's no emotional intimacy, we don't have physical intimacy. She also hasn't slept in our bed in probably 8 months. Our son likes to sleep on the couch and likes her out there with him, plus apparently I snore. So that's her reasons for sleeping on a couch. Yet she said that's a big reason for no intimacy. No kidding. I've done sleep studies, tried different mouthguards, etc to help with the snoring. Again, it was just weird that she used the things that bothered me as justification for her decision. It would be like me telling her the reason I want a D is because we don't have long emotional discussions about our feelings. lol
Hopefully one of these lawyers calls me back today. I just don't want to hand one $3000 (which I don't even have) unless it's absolutely necessary.
A mutual friend stopped by for 15 minutes on Saturday. W came out and the 3 of us chatted for a bit. This friend knows all about our history and current sitch. When W walked away, he said that if he didn't know better, he'd think we'd reached some sort of relationship breakthrough because of how good things seem to be between us. Maybe W is just totally happy because of the M finally coming to an end?
Anyway, thanks again!
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
