Mothers Day approaches traditionally a time that our family honors W including a meal, usually outdoors, sometimes at a restaurant, cards, flowers. I read through a bit of the TMAK thread. W has been engaging more with our kids and family. At first after BD, she was very self-centered and disconnected from everything familiar except her M. She has been reconnecting with family, community, some friends and in some ways me. I am not interpreting any of this to indicate she wants back into the M.
How do I give her as much space as possible and honor her as our kids mom? I really want to get out of the way for her to choose and be who she needs to be.
