You can absolutely keep your character and DB and be kind all at the same time! This is why i was going to step out for now. I just don’t think I’m being very much help. Honestly, Steve was very helpful to me in my journey and I was hopeful him or someone else maybe able to help get you over this hump.

I understand this goes against every instinct you have but there isn’t a short cut and doing it at a 25% rate just won’t do. I’m still going to follow but until we can get you to truly start I’m not sure what I can add and I don’t want to be a detriment to getting you there. It’s hard enough getting there as it is. I do know that.


Me: 40
EX:37
Together 17 years
Married 16 years
5 kids, 20,18,15,14,11

BD 03/06/20, divorced 12/23/21