I really value your input and feedback. I am not content with friendship with W - that’s not what I want. She has said that’s what she wants but honestly she has not been a friend to me. My friends don’t treat me the way she has been.
It is important to me that I do what is right and thus, I am choosing kindness, and caring for myself and my family. W is on the outside looking in it seems to me. And nothing she has said or done indicates that she wants to be in the marriage.
I need to keep investing in my real friendships as I see it.