First, get your own lawyer. All lawyers say to only use them. It's a crock. It would be like using a buyer's real estate agent. You Need your own representation. As an aside, your money is communal funds so she can already use your money for the retainer. Don't tell her this and don't offer it to her. Just let that go for now.
Second, slow down on the "it's over" talk. It'll be over when it's over. Her talking about it doesn't mean it's over. WASs are all talk. Until you see action, as in she actually files. We've seen the "is over because WAS said it was over" thing before.
Third, back to basics. GAL like a mad man. 180s and self improvements. You're already in a good place regarding detachment. Keep working in it. Remember, focus of her and the marriage and on to you.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
