Would unloading on her bring you closer to your goal or further from your goal? Your logic may explain to you how unhappy she is right now. Time will tell if you were the source of her unhappiness. I would say the LRT is perfect for you right now.
Good point. Maybe I need to reread the LRT section, because I don't really remember any differences between that and DB'ing
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
