Brave Little Gerda Passes Through the Door

[Elbereth]

Hi Sage4! Great to see you are still poking around!

Gerda, I’m glad my post helped in some way and you found it supportive.

Some advice on the restraining order. When my XH and I had to do one for his XW, the lawyers took it most seriously because it included examples that included other people that were not family. So if you are able to include written examples provided by the bartender or anyone else describing the harassment and/or abuse, that goes a long way in preventing your XH from trying to make it sound like it’s all in your head. Because that is what “they” do and with the games your XH plays, your goal is to limit those opportunities as well as protect yourself. Let us know what you find out from your conversations and what you end up doing.

Hugs to you,

El