Thankyou also steve it makes sense. It all makes so much sense and I know I can’t fix him, I know I am not going to let his problems drag me down especially when he has chosen to walk away and deal with them alone. I know I can be happy and I am doing a pretty decent job of the 180 that’s for sure but of course there’s triggers in my day that pull me under again. I might try thinking of the stop sign. Keeping busy does help. GAL is certainly high on my priority too.For me and the kids. But how hard is it to plan something fun with them and not invite H. Sheesh that hurts too.
M:41 H:48 T:20. M:16.5 BD: 15/12/22 -moved out 17/3/2023
