Detachment is a process. Many LBWs especially have trouble with it because you all make the marriage staying together a matter of life and death in your head. Read the Sticky "You will not die". Once you get to a place emotionally where you know you'll be fine, better fine, your life will be awesome no matter what happens, then detachment becomes easier.
While you are holding on so tight, you'll never start detaching. You've heard the analogy of dropping the rope haven't you? Let go of the rope....
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
